micro semantics

i realized the other day that there’s a big difference between saying that we can’t have kids OF our own vs. ON our own.  No matter how our kids come to join our family, they WILL be “our own” even if we didn’t contribute the genetics to knit them together ourselves.  Interesting how that one tiny letter makes such a big difference.

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#1 annabanana on 02.25.10 at 12:42 pm

i love this line of thought.

#2 kathleen on 02.28.10 at 1:55 pm

thank you for that… as we start leaning towards adoption ourselves, your words of courage and insight are a strength to me!!

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