{"id":372,"date":"2010-05-10T20:58:48","date_gmt":"2010-05-11T03:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/?p=372"},"modified":"2010-05-10T21:01:34","modified_gmt":"2010-05-11T04:01:34","slug":"my-first-mothers-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/?p=372","title":{"rendered":"my first mother&#8217;s day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>first of all, thank you to everyone who responded to my <a href=\"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/?p=368\">&#8220;ghosts&#8221; post <\/a>both here in the comments and also off-blog at my e-mail address.\u00a0 thank you for making me feel like it&#8217;s not completely bizarre that i still had those reactions to mother&#8217;s day hullabaloo even though i am now a mother.\u00a0 in case you&#8217;re all wondering how my first mother&#8217;s day went&#8230; it was the best mother&#8217;s day i&#8217;ve had in at least five years.\u00a0 although i had to get over some initial disappointment that j didn&#8217;t get up at 5 a.m. to cook me a 7 course breakfast in bed complete with a glittery tiara that says &#8220;#1 mom&#8221; (instead, he got up at 5 (or was it 6?) a.m. and took the baby to babble in another room so that i could get a few more winks of sleep.\u00a0 thanks honey!) we did have a lovely, relaxing day at home, then gave the baby a bath, went to church, and then out to eat delicious thai food where they brought out a free dessert &#8220;for mothers&#8221; (we were joined for dinner by some very dear friends who do not have children and i was greatly relieved that the waitress brought a dessert for them too without making a big deal out of it.).<\/p>\n<p>remember in that ghost post where i talked about the double whammy?\u00a0 well, i got the best half of that duo&#8211;a beautiful baby boy&#8211;and we had a little mini photo shoot (thanks again, j!) to prove it.\u00a0 here are a few of my favorites:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"grin\" src=\"http:\/\/lh5.ggpht.com\/_PTNu-ATLX5k\/S-jQtUFHYEI\/AAAAAAAABPc\/HoojoSTCmbE\/s720\/armsmilenobinky.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"720\" height=\"478\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"smooch\" src=\"http:\/\/lh4.ggpht.com\/_PTNu-ATLX5k\/S-jQsOZTapI\/AAAAAAAABPY\/q-dQJ7CNj_A\/s720\/_IGP8683.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"720\" height=\"480\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"lookin' up\" src=\"http:\/\/lh6.ggpht.com\/_PTNu-ATLX5k\/S-jQvdyoMSI\/AAAAAAAABPk\/B_wU56U54ww\/s720\/_IGP8734.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"720\" height=\"480\" \/><\/p>\n<p>and here&#8217;s baby dude&#8217;s gift for me:<\/p>\n<p><object classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=11603217&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=&amp;fullscreen=1\" \/><embed type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" src=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=11603217&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=&amp;fullscreen=1\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\"><\/embed><\/object><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/11603217\">Gabriel says Mama<\/a> from <a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/user3735856\">carissaabc<\/a> on <a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\">Vimeo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>yep, it was a pretty happy Mother&#8217;s Day.\u00a0 I&#8217;m already looking forward to next year.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>first of all, thank you to everyone who responded to my &#8220;ghosts&#8221; post both here in the comments and also off-blog at my e-mail address.\u00a0 thank you for making me feel like it&#8217;s not completely bizarre that i still had those reactions to mother&#8217;s day hullabaloo even though i am now a mother.\u00a0 in case [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-372","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/372","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=372"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/372\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":374,"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/372\/revisions\/374"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=372"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=372"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/riftraft.jayandcarissa.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=372"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}